While Blued and Jack’d are popular, they can be hookup-heavy. Consider apps that allow for more detailed bios or "Relationship" tags like Tinder (set to men) or Bumble . 2. Leverage Your "Out" Status
Based on your profile, it looks like you are a (born 1995) male, 172cm tall , 65kg , and identify as a bottom . You are out of the closet , looking for a serious partner , and specifically interested in a same-sex marriage . 1. Optimize Your Digital Presence While Blued and Jack’d are popular, they can
Look for local volleyball, badminton, or board game groups. Leverage Your "Out" Status Based on your profile,
Look into Legal Guardianship (意定监护) . Many LGBTQ couples in China use this legal tool to grant each other rights similar to a spouse (medical decisions, property). 4. Safety & Vetting Optimize Your Digital Presence Look for local volleyball,
Being "out of the closet" (已出柜) is a massive green flag for someone looking for marriage.
Look for others who are also out or at least have a timeline for it. If marriage is the goal, dating someone who is "deep in the closet" will make your objective very difficult. 3. Broaden Your Search (Legal & Social)
Since you are looking for a "husband" rather than a hookup, your profile needs to signal "long-term potential."