"Work can be a drag or a dream. Which side of the fence are you on today?" 5. Exit While It’s Good
"I’m debating between the latte and the cold brew—have you tried the seasonal one here?"
Standard questions ( "What do you do?" ) feel like an interview. Statement-questions feel like a conversation. You make a small assumption or observation, then let them confirm or deny it. "Where are you from?"
People love talking about themselves, but they really love it when someone notices a detail. Look for a "hook"—a unique piece of jewelry, a book they’re holding, or even a specific brand of sneakers.
The first question is the "icebreaker," but the second question is where the magic happens. Most people let the conversation die after the first answer. A Casanova listens for a "keyword" in their response and digs deeper. "I'm just here for work."
"Work can be a drag or a dream. Which side of the fence are you on today?" 5. Exit While It’s Good
"I’m debating between the latte and the cold brew—have you tried the seasonal one here?" Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Star...
Standard questions ( "What do you do?" ) feel like an interview. Statement-questions feel like a conversation. You make a small assumption or observation, then let them confirm or deny it. "Where are you from?" "Work can be a drag or a dream
People love talking about themselves, but they really love it when someone notices a detail. Look for a "hook"—a unique piece of jewelry, a book they’re holding, or even a specific brand of sneakers. Statement-questions feel like a conversation
The first question is the "icebreaker," but the second question is where the magic happens. Most people let the conversation die after the first answer. A Casanova listens for a "keyword" in their response and digs deeper. "I'm just here for work."
