Compliments are great, but they can be dead ends. Always pair them with a question. Instead of "I like your shirt," try "That’s a great shirt—where did you find it?"
Share a small, relatable opinion or fact. "I’m actually a bit nervous being here; I don't know many people yet." This vulnerability signals that you’re safe to talk to. How To Start A Conversation And Make Friends
If they mention they’re tired because they were up late training their dog, don't just say "Oh, cool." Ask, "What kind of dog?" or "Is training going well?" Compliments are great, but they can be dead ends
do you usually try to meet people (gym, work, bars, events)? "I’m actually a bit nervous being here; I
Friendships are built on This is why it’s easier to make friends at school or work—you see the same people repeatedly.
What’s the you hit (starting the chat, keeping it going, or the "ask")? I can give you specific scripts tailored to your situation.
If you talked about a specific interest, use it as a bridge. "I’d love to hear more about those hiking trails you mentioned. Do you have Instagram or a number? We should exchange info."