Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (official Music Video) May 2026

"Lose You To Love Me" is a deeply personal pop ballad by Selena Gomez, released on October 23, 2019, as the lead single from her third studio album, Rare . The song is widely recognized as a "self-love anthem" that chronicles the painful but necessary journey of moving on from a toxic relationship to rediscover one's own identity. Key Meaning & Background

The minimalist, black-and-white video was directed by Sophie Muller, who also directed Gomez's "Good for You". It features Gomez in a "confessional" style, singing directly into the camera to capture a range of raw emotions from distress to final contentment. Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

The entire video was shot on an iPhone 11 Pro as part of Apple's "Shot on iPhone" campaign. Commercial & Critical Success "Lose You To Love Me" is a deeply